Written by: Mann
Actions and emotions are always in tune.
If a girl truly loves you, her actions will be in tune with it. Never judge a girl by her words, the truth always lies in her actions.
Most guys find girls confusing because girls usually don’t follow up on what they seem to be saying. The thumb rule to follow with girls is to base your judgments on their actions, rather than their words.
Just because a girl tells you that she loves you, does not mean that she really feels love for you deep down. Girls are usually not very decided about what they want so they just follow their intuition unconsciously. That’s the reason why her actions become more important than her words.
Knowing this logic will help you understand your relationship, with your girlfriend, better.
The emotions of love and interest level go side by side. When the interest level dips, it is difficult to maintain love. It is normal for interest levels to fluctuate. Sometimes it’s high, sometimes it’s medium, but if it gets low, the relationship is as good as over.
Depending on your girlfriend’s personality traits, she may express her love in different ways. If a girl is truly in love with you she would usually display several of the actions mentioned below.
She Will Call You Up More Often Than You Call Her
Girls who are truly in love are usually always thinking about their guy. So it’s natural for them to call him up every now and then, just to know where he is and what he is doing.
If she seldom calls you it does indicate a low level of interest on her part.
Here is the test, don’t call her at all for one week. Let her call. See how many times she calls you up.
If she calls up less than 5 times a weeks it shows a very low level of interest.
If she has been calling up more than 20 times in a week, well it does show a lot of interest level on her part.
Anywhere in between indicates a medium interest level, which is not really great if you are just starting on a relationship.
She Gives Without You Asking
Girls are givers, they love giving a lot more than guys do. One definite indicator of how much she loves you, lies in how much she is giving you.
It does not have to be material things. She can be giving you kisses, hugs, food, comfort, massage or anything. The more she is giving, the more she is in love with you, it’s that simple.
Most girls who are truly in love cannot get their hands and lips off the guy. They are constantly kissing, cuddling or hugging the guy. It’s their nature to give comfort especially with people they really love.
On special occasions or just to surprise you, she might get you something you always wanted without you asking for it. You can actually feel the love in her giving. What needs to be counted is how much is she giving without your asking for it.
If your girlfriend rarely gives you a kiss without you asking for it, well the interest level is a definite zero.
She Treats You Like A Baby
This may not be applicable to all girls, but it is true for 90% of them. Girls treat their boyfriend like babies, constantly cuddling or cajoling them. It’s in their nature.
They give baby names to their boyfriend for this very reason. If you girlfriend hasn’t given you a baby name yet, it might indicate a low interest level. If she is not baby talking to you at-least a little, that could also indicate a dipping interest level.
The more she loves you, the more she will treat you like her baby. Guys internally like being treated that way too.
She Gets Angry With You
Yeah, girls reserve their most severe emotions for the person they love the most. Girls love getting angry and fighting with their boyfriend for the simplest of reasons.
If you are not able to invoke severe emotions in her, it would indicate a very low interest level on her part. There is a bottom line here though, if she is constantly nagging you or getting abnormally angry for small things, it could indicate an emotional problem she is suffering from.
She Gets Jealous Whenever You Talk To Other Girls
All girls are prone to jealously, for that matter most guys are the same. If you love someone you are bound to feel a little possessive and that’s normal.
If she loves you a lot, she will feel possessive towards you and wouldn’t want to share you with anyone. You might have other girls as just friends, but she would sooner or later start getting jealous about your interaction with them. This is very normal.
If she is not getting jealous, when you interact with some other girl in her presence, it would indicate a low interest level. It would just show that she is not much bothered or may be her attention is somewhere else.
She Does Not Flirt With Other Guys
This is a given; if a girl loves you she will shun other guys. Unless the girl has some emotional issues with her self esteem, she would not go about flirting with other guys when she has a steady boyfriend who she truly loves.
If you catch your girlfriend making eye contact with other guys while she next to you, it would indicate that she is not really interested in you that much. A girl reserves all her attention for the guy she truly loves.
If your girlfriend has a lot of guy friends, it would indicate a red flag. Girls usually drop out their guy friends once they have a steady boyfriend, so that she is able to spend more time with him.
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